Friday, June 28, 2013

IU Bball draft

To say that we were DELIGHTED at the results of the NBA draft would be an understatement. Victor Oladipo was my favorite IU player this year. He was the #2 draft pick and went to the Orlando Magic. They're my new favorite team (behind the Miami Heat- due to their Harlem Shake video...still love it- and the Pacers, of course)!
http://www.orlandomagicdaily.com/2013-articles/june/magic-nba-draft-062713.html
Then Cody Zeller, one of Jackson's favorites, went #4 to the Charlotte Bobcats. 
nba.com
Cody hadn't been too high on my favorites list (he didn't play that well this year. Coach Jenn thought he needed to run a few more laps for lazily missed important baskets, but no one listens to her!) until Jackson sent me a copy of the tweet Cody posted on draft day I've posted below:
#AnyoneWhoHatesPurdueIsAwesome

And just like that I got a #4 favorite team in the Charlotte Bobcats. Goodness, I might become an NBA fan after all. I mean how else am I going to keep up on my #1 (all by themselves by a landslide) college team's players if I don't keep up with the NBA? Clearly this something Purdue fans need not worry about for now. HA! :)

Friday, June 21, 2013

Arkansas

The weather wasn't exactly awesome on Sunday morning so after a quick breakfast we decided to get on the road home. We took the long way home so that I could mark off Arkansas. 
Audit evidence ;)
I now see why my mind told me I'd already been to Arkansas. It is lame! I can only speak for the Northeast corner, but still. The roads were awful and seemingly had not been maintained since the 1970's.
Blytheville's Water Tower
We stopped in Blytheville to get gasoline at a Kroger and see its historic downtown that I'd read about online.
They did have gasoline! I got out of the car at the pump to go shoot a photo of the water tower. Jackson asked me, "what in the world are you taking a photo of HERE?!?!" I chuckled and carried on. Imagine my surprise (Ok, fine, and delight) when a car passes by and a man shouts "NICE ASS" at me while I'm taking the picture. Perhaps that people of Arkansas aren't so bad after all. ;) Jackson found this hilarious. I informed him that when you're old, any compliment is better than none at all.
Without further ado we headed to historic downtown.
Yep. Two signs and we'd seen the whole thing. What is historic about that?! I was SO annoyed!

So Arkansas was a bust! I'm sure other parts of the state are nice. Maybe one day I will be far enough removed from this ugly experience and give it another shot. :)

We stopped in Terre Haute for lunch and then went over to Indiana State University since I'd never seen it. Jackson tried to show me around his old stomping grounds. Then we realized that a lot of progress happens on a campus in EIGHTEEN YEARS and Jackson didn't know where anything was. It was an epic fail. We even accidentally drove ON campus not just through it while we were lost. Oops. :) It was not as horrible as a campus as I'd expected, but I'm still biased towards IU. (Fine, Ball State is nice, too!)

We were so happy to be home and out of the car. I am so thankful that Jackson indulges my ridiculous ideas to go mark off random states for my birthday. We had fun...even if Arkansas was a real letdown!

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Walking in Memphis...

You guys, we loved the Memphis area. No one is more surprised than we are. We really thought it would be a scary, dirty town. It wasn't. At all. Now, in an effort at full disclosure, I must admit that we stayed in the fanciest suburb, Germantown, but still. It was awesome.

We got up somewhat early and headed down to the hotel's lobby for breakfast. It was so nice out that we took our meals outside and dined by the pool and soaked in the early morning sun. It was lovely. Life gets so busy sometimes that I forget to stop and appreciate the simple pleasures in life. The sun hitting my face is one of my favorite feelings. It just makes me feel alive. I already had on, of course, sunscreen. More on that later. ;) We finished our leisurely breakfast and decided to try to find a park to walk in before the heat of the day really set in. We found one and wandered around for a bit. We'd passed some awesome neighborhoods between our hotel and the park so we went back to one of those neighborhoods and walked through it.
The neighborhood was still under construction and Jackson made himself right at home by visiting the worker's portable toilet. Yep. That's my husband. He fits in wherever he goes. ;) HA! Anyway, one of the homes we walked by had a Briarcrest Christian School sign in its yard. Jackson mentioned that Michael Oher, the guy on whom the movie The Blindside is based upon, went to that school. I promptly decided that we just HAD to find the Tuohy's house. (If you've not seen the movie, you simply must. Also, none of this will make sense to you until you see it.) I am always amazed at the power of Google and within 3 minutes we were on the road headed to see their mansion.
Jackson was in charge of getting the photo. He wouldn't let me get out and go to the door. He said something about not wanting to see the inside of Memphis' jail?!? It was so strange. ;)
After we finished stalking  visiting Michael Oher's family we decided to spend the afternoon at the hotel's pool. This meant we'd have to swing by Target to get some sunscreen because now that I'm 29 I cannot take any chances on sun damage. I'm going to get wrinkles soon and I don't need the sun speeding up that process. Jackson thought I was kidding in the Turks when I said that my days of unprotected sun worshipping are over. I wasn't. My new motto is "she without the sunburn wins!" HA! :)
What a day at the pool looks like when you get old. Sigh.
It was a gorgeous day to be beside and in the pool. Jackson finished his book that he started reading in the Turks. (HE FINISHED READING A BOOK! FOR FUN! HE READ A BOOK FOR FUN!) I started reading a book on my Kindle called, "The Joy of Less, A Minimalist Living Guide: How to Declutter, Organize, and Simplify Your Life." We both got a chuckle when another pool-goer (an older lady) asked us what we were reading. Jackson was reading a book about the Boston Marathon in 1982 and I was reading about organizing your life. She made a funny face and said, "those are weird books" and kept moving. I wanted to ask her what she was reading that was so darn normal, but I didn't. HA! Anyway, after staying at the pool far longer than Jackson wanted to (people say it is me who doesn't sit still. They've not been on vacation with Jackson. I don't need a child. He is as needy as one.), it was time to get some lunch and head into Memphis to explore. 

There is a huge debate in the Memphis area about which restaurant has the best BBQ. We chose to go to the Germantown Commissary (http://www.commissarybbq.com/) at the recommendation of the ladies working at the Coach store. We were not disappointed. It was the cutest place ever, too.
Jackson's ribs- He won't stop talking about them. Still. 
My pork stuffed potato- SO GOOD
Once we finished with dinner we headed to downtown Memphis to go to the National Civil Rights Museum.I don't have words to describe how moving it was to stand where MLK Jr. did when he was assissinated.


The museum now owns the old Lorraine Hotel/Motel (depending on which sign you read- as seen in the photos above and below). They're currently building a new section of the museum, but I was happy to just see what we did while it was under construction. 



It was so incredible to see something that you've only seen in history books. I must admit, embarrassingly enough, that I have managed to forget 97.98% of the historical information I was taught throughout my academic career. I had it etched in my memory that MLK was giving a speech from his balcony when he was shot. That isn't true. He was on his way to give a speech. 


The museum has painstakingly restored the room to its EXACT condition on the fateful day. It was fascinating to see how much hotels have changed and how much they've stayed the same. 
The hostel where the shots came from (supposedly. The entire museum lends itself to conspiracy theories and tells you to decide for yourself what happened. I refuse to do this. I don't have the time or desire to doubt what I've been told happened. Bah. Bah. I know. I am a little American sheep. Sorry.) that killed MLK in 1968 is also part of the museum. This is the window from which the shots were fired. 
This is the view back from the Lorraine towards to hostel. It was SO creepy to think about someone shooting you from that far away.
"I always wondered what was in that white water fountain they didn't want me to drink out of...but I found out once I grew up that the white water fountain was cool water...and the colored water was warm."- David L. Acey
It really struck me how 1968 was not that terribly long ago. Some of my readers may even remember this time. I am amazed how how far we've come in that I cannot imagine treating one race as the lesser. I know that we've not accomplished everything that MLK wanted us to, but we're on the road to it. I hope.

The museum was incredible. I cannot recommend it enough. It may be a little more enjoyable if you brush up on your history. Or you could just go with a handsome man who loves that stuff and pump him for information. I selected option two. ;)


We left the museum and headed for Beale Street. 
"No trip is complete with a stop at the Hard Rock for Deb's pin."- Jackson
We loved this area, too! It was a warm, but not miserable night, so there were TONS of people out and about.
Sleepy pooch
Don't mind the scaffolding...ha!
Quite an appropriate sign since I just read "No Easy Day"
ALL of the runners
We realized after walking around for a bit that a 5k was going to be starting in a few minutes. We were bummed that we didn't read about it and sign up ourselves, but then we decided that it was too warm for a good run. HA! :)
We grabbed a beer and a Sprite and watched them run instead
The bar's band played "Walking in Memphis" and I loved every single second of it!
We enjoyed wandering around Beale Street for a bit longer before heading back to Germantown for the evening. We drove by the University of Memphis campus and some other landmarks on the way back. We still didn't see any rough areas! We were looking, too!
Imagine my surprise when I saw a map listing, "Jenna Road" near our hotel. This was an obvious stop for us. Jackson has whole cities named "for" him, but I never get anything. If I were still young and wild I would have stolen the sign. Instead I just snapped a photo and headed to bed early. Goodness me this old age thing isn't anything to be taken lightly. ;)

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Ole Miss visit

MacK pouting because she didn't get a cone
Thursday evening Susie took us for ice cream to celebrate my birthday. My diet said no, but my taste buds said yes. I think we all know which side won.
I came home and got my very first ever flag for Flag Day as a part of my present. I loved it! I also got a new Tervis IU cup (which I will use at Ball State without an ounce of shame- no worries) and a DSW gift card. That lady is a good gifter! :)
MacK and Jack weren't as excited about the flag it seems...
Friday morning we were up with before the sun and on our way to spend the weekend in Memphis. Oh, I'm sorry, is your birthday not a national holiday? Mine is, thus I do not work on my birthday. Ha! (OK, my birthday could be any old day and I wouldn't go to work that day, but the whole national holiday thing is a pretty great excuse for me.) That morning's drive went by really quickly and we were at our hotel in Germantown, TN by about noon Central. We took a few minutes to drop off our stuff in our new home for the next couple of days before hitting the road again. We just couldn't get enough of riding in Jackson's new unit seemingly. As most of you know, a recent audit of my states visited revealed that Arkansas and Mississippi had indadvertedly been missed.
Not anymore. Welcome to Mississippi
While there is not a lot to do in Mississippi, we still had a nice time visiting. We'd heard about casinos but opted instead to visit Oxford, MS home to the University of Mississippi ("Ole Miss"). I love college campuses. The campus was large and very pretty on the outside. The football stadium was insanely large. I mean it made some professional stadiums look small. The inside of the buildings hadn't been updated and were very ugly. I was surprised by this.
I'm sorry, you were born to yell WHAT?
We went to the bookstore, of course, and were completely confused by all of the shirts saying "hotty toddy" and other nonsense. As it turns out, Southerns just make up phrases to cheer on their teams. They also dress up for football games. To each their own...(weirdos). We got our shirts- minus weird sayings-and headed for the town square to do a little shopping and have lunch.

To do this we had to first park...poop.

Jackson parallel parking for me...
In Oxford one must know how to parallel park. I am not good at it so I had to get out of the driver's seat and cheer Jackson on from the curb much to the delight of other drivers, I'm sure. ;)
Anyway, Jackson saved the day and we were able to enjoy an afternoon on the square. There were a ton of little clothing stores with adorably, outrageously priced goods in them. None of those stores sold a single thing to me, though. I don't pay $200 for one shirt. These Southerns are really something else! We were unimpressed with the people of Oxford. We actually heard some store associates talking about "colored people" and "the blacks" and "the whites with their hired black help." We quickly left that store afraid that somehow their close-mindedness would rub off on us. Idiots.
Jackson was ready for some Southern Comfort

I was ready for some Lysol...
TripAdvisor almost never leads us astray. It did in Oxford, though. We stopped in at Ajax Diner as it was #1 in the whole city and boasted that Eli Manning (former Ole Miss QB and current top 5 favorite NFL player in my book) dined there often during his time in Oxford. Well Eli, this place sucked. The food was awful and I ended up getting sick shortly after we left. Fear not, TripAdvisor has a new review from us spelling out the dangers of this place. We did get to shop in an old-fashioned department store on the square once I finished throwing up my lunch. That was a positive outcome from a negative situation if you ask me. We still didn't buy anything as the Southerns were still on crack with their pricing. 


Oxford is also home to the original McAlister's Deli. It actually used to be a gas station and then was turned into a restaurant. Now they have hundreds of locations all over the country and is one of my favorite places to dine.
They still lift the garage door sometimes
The old shop door to the patio
The Sweet Tea philosophy is OK by me!
Isn't it cute?!
When in the South, do as Southerners do; I had a 1/2 sweet, 1/2 unsweetened tea from McAlister's to keep me company on the drive back to Germantown. Mississippi had some really pretty areas to drive through and driving was much more enjoyable than dealing with the pesky people in the "big city." I give Mississippi a "D-" mostly because of the racism. That was stupid years ago and makes no more sense now, folks, move on.

Since it was my birthday and all we headed to the Coach store in Germantown to exchange my gift from my Mom and Guy. It seems that when I said I wanted a Coach iPhone cover both my folks and Jackson listened. (For the first time EVER- ha!) I had already opened and started using the one from Jackson so I traded in the one from my folks and got a new wallet for only a $7 difference. Woot! The ladies in the Coach store were so friendly. They gave us tips on things to do and see around Memphis and we were very happy with them. I cannot recommend enough stopping in at the Germantown Coach store.

That pretty much wrapped up our day. We had gotten up extremely early and since I did actually turn *gasp* 29 that day, I was exhausted and needed some sleep. What can I say? Getting old isn't easy. ;)

Sunday, June 16, 2013

4 left in the 50 by 30 Quest

This post is really long because it was drafted while taking a long road trip mixed with trips down memory lane. We had so much fun thinking back on all of our trips and are amazed at how many states we've visited together since our first trip back in February, 2006. We are excited to finish my 50 by 30 mission and come up with a new goal. I've on,y got 4 states left and we have plans to see 3 of them already set. When, oh when, will I get to North Dakota?!?

Alabama- They've got a rest stop with an old rocket ship displayed that was amazing as a young girl. Jackson got to go to space camp here. (Do I sound jealous of this? I am. It was one of my biggest wishes growing up to get to go to space camp and it never happened. Jackson rubs it in. Often.) Alabama is also home to one of my favorite college football teams...Roll Tide!

Alaska- this is scheduled to be our final state hit on this quest. We plan to be in Alaska on Jenna's 30th birthday!

Arizona- Listen, the Grand Canyon is pretty and all but don't plan to spend a ton of time looking at a huge hole in the earth or you may get bored. Phoenix is certainly worth the visit and if you make it to the top of Camelback Mountain I salute you. (We intend to return one day to finish that monster hike.)

Arkansas-Well, we stopped here. Jackson swears that the western side if the state is actually much nicer and pretty. Blytheville didn't have much to offer and it was the "big city" in NE Arkansas. I'm sure there are nice areas, but the state just looked tired. The interstate wasn't well maintained and that matters to road warriors.

California- We LOVE Cali. It is such a diverse state. So. Cal is crowded and hot but full of awesome things to do and see. We highly recommend hiking Runyon Canyon to get some awesome views of the area. San Diego is a little overrated, in our opinion. No. Cal is just gorgeous. San Francisco is one of our all-time favorite cities. Pebble Beach's 17-mile road is one of the prettiest we've ever driven. We feel like we could spend months exploring California. We still want to see Sequoia National Park, Yosemite, Palm Springs and Lake Tahoe to name a few.

Colorado- We also love CO. Denver will always have a piece of our hearts and we'd be open to living there again. The Rockies are some of the most beautiful mountains ever and we loved climbing them!

Connecticut- Hartford is a miss. New Haven, home to Yale, is certainly a redeeming quality of this state. We'd still like to spend some time on the coast where the rich people of New York spend their downtime.

District of Columbia- (Ok, I know D.C. is not a state but it is worth mentioning.) I think every American should spend Independence Day there at least once in their lives. I cannot begin to explain how awesome it was to see fireworks going off over our nation's capital. We love the Georgetown area of the city and really enjoyed some of the museums around town. The customer service in DC is absolutely terrible, though. We think it has something to do with taxation without representation since they're fired up about that enough to complain about it on their license plates.

Delaware- Don't go to Rehoboth Beach (or at least don't go on the 4th of July like we did). As far as we could tell there wasn't much going on in Delaware and we're ok with not making a repeat trip. If you beg to differ please recommend places to go or things to do there.

Florida- We love Florida. The UF Gators are my #1 favorite college team- CHOMP! CHOMP! GO GATA! Palm Beach is one of our favorite spots to vacation to and we'd love to live there one day. We weren't terribly impressed with The Keys. While we prefer the metropolitan feel of the Atlantic Coast, we do love Siesta Key on the Gulf side. Jackson wants to point out that he enjoys watching me in misery as we cross the monstrous Sunshine Skyway bridge. I think he's an ass for that comment.

Georgia- There was a long pause while we contemplated what to say about this state. We've driven through it quite a few times and hated it each time (Atlanta's traffic sucks 24/7, we'd swear it). Jackson says that Atlanta's Buckhead district is super nice as he worked in that area a couple of times. I'm not buying it. And whatever you do, do NOT go to the underground mall in downtown ATL. We would like to get to Augusta one day to see The Masters played, but its placement during during tax season makes it tough to plan such a trip. Oops- we forgot about Savannah! It is a really cute little city with beautiful homes and fun tour guides (we'll never forget you PoohBear).

Hawaii- I've been and Jackson hasn't (take that, space camper!!!!!!). I flew to Honolulu on September 25, 2001 as in a mere TWO WEEKS after 9/11. It was the longest flight of my life- not in actual duration of course but it felt like an eternity. I've still never been happier to land. My Mom and I enjoyed seeing the city and visiting my Uncle Derek. We hated the food (mainly sushi) and nearly starved. (Ok, that's a little dramatic.) We'd like to visit Maui and we wouldn't mind doing this sweet photography tour through Oahu that we got for my Mom for Mother's Day as she is going back in a couple of weeks.

Idaho- Check back with us in September and I'll tell you all about it. Rumor has it they know their way around a potato ;)

Illinois- Jackson once lived in Champaign and he will tell you ALL about it. He honestly only lived there from ages seven to ten but manages to reference it nearly once a week. It happens so often that I actually exclaim "DING!" whenever it happens much to his chagrin. He now has a memory lane tour on his mind and is searching for our first free weekend to go for a visit. Great. ;) My first trip to Chicago as a child was a disaster as my Mom couldn't figure out how to get to our hotel from the interstate and we must have taken this one loop 10 times before successfully exiting. Now we love Chicago especially in the summertime as river cruises and Cubs are quintessential summer activities. The only things we have left to really do in the city are to dine atop the Hancock Tower and visit the Shedd Aquarium.

Indiana- We're both from here so it is near and dear to our hearts. We bleed crimson and cream for our Indiana Hoosiers (No, it doesn't bother me in the least that Ball State signs my paychecks and they're not my favorite Indiana collegiate team.).

Iowa- We have both driven through it and didn't see anything worth stopping for- ha! I actually stayed the night there once on a drive from Denver to Indy (I took the long route to visit Iowa and Nebraska, in fact) and met more Hawkeyes fans than I ever cared to. ;)

Kansas- We love Kansas. Jackson's paternal side of the family lived in and around Lawrence, home of the University of Kansas. Rock Chalk, Jayhawk! If you've met us you've likely heard that there is a Petefish drive on campus (actually named for Jackson's great-uncle who was an attorney for the University and still has a law office with his name on it in town years after his death) that makes the school one of our favorites. Lawrence is an awesome college town and we'd love to catch a game in Phog Allen Fieldhouse one day. Jackson's grandparents, Mary and Art, lived in Ottawa when he was growing up and he has fond memories of hanging out at his Uncle Howard's farm outside of that small city. We also love to stop in Colby, Kansas at a rest stop with fake palm trees that calls itself "the oasis on the plains" whenever we drive through on I-70.

Kentucky- I'm actually composing this entry as we drive through Kentucky. (I had to have to distract me from Jackson's driving. At one point he actually had his shoes off and feet crossed as we navigated through traffic. What the heck?) We loathe the University of Kentucky Wildcats. They are in fact our least favorite professional basketball team. (They're supposed to be a college team but since they pay their players we classify them as professionals. #WatShot) We each have fond memories of visiting the lakes down here- Dale Hallow for me and Kentucky Lake for Jackson- when we were younger.

Louisiana- I finally got to see New Orleans in late 2012. The city was so neat that it almost made our first (and last) cruise worth it. The beignets at Cafe DuMonde are worth the trip by themselves. A word of warning: beware of the powdered sugar walk of shame. Ha! Also, if you manage to eat all three that come in an order by yourself you may feel genuinely awful afterwards. (No, no, we're not speaking from experience. Of course not. Ha!) The city felt very European and was quite different than any other city we've visited in the United States. We'd like to explore more of the Gulf Coast someday, but those people can keep their rabbit and sausage gumbo!

Maine- We adore Maine. The first time we visited and saw a sign proclaiming Maine as "vacationland USA" we scoffed. Now we understand. It is a gorgeous place. The lobster is cheap. (So cheap that they actually have laws about how often the state's prisoners can be served lobster in a week because it used to be served nearly daily. Isn't that wild?!) Maine is also a huge state so we've only really explored the southern coast so far. We fully intend to spend a lot more time there in the future. I am determined to see a moose while visiting sometime!!

Maryland- Annapolis was a quaint town. Security officers at the Naval Academy took themselves so seriously that it was almost comical. We were thoroughly unimpressed by Baltimore the one time we visited. I've since heard good things about the city but we've not had to desire to give it a second chance just yet.

Massachusetts- Boston is one of America's best cities in our opinion. It is so rich with history and American pride. We enjoyed (most of) our time there and regret not living there longer. I'd always wanted to see Plymouth Rock so we made that trip once. Warning: it is a very small rock that isn't terribly impressive. We may be the only former residents who actually applaud the city for the "big dig" project. Those tunnels made life a lot easier in a crowded town filled with aggressive, angry drivers. The Boston Marathon was one of our favorite events held in the city and we hope that this year's terrorist attack won't put a damper on such a special tradition.

Michigan- First, the visit Michigan commercials are amazing and should win awards every single day because they make me want to go so badly! Anyway, we spent an Independence Day in St. Joseph one year and had a great time. It was an adorable little town. Detroit isn't much to write home about. We'd really like to get to Traverse City and Mackinac Island in the near future.

Minnesota-The home of the Mall of America. It was a huge mall, that's for sure. I had a good time shopping there but I don't need to return. ;) Jackson's family rented a lake house up there once and he had a nice time.

Mississippi-Goodness. Where do we even begin? Admittedly we only visited the Ole Miss campus and shopped around Oxford's courthouse square for one afternoon. It seemed to be stuck in the past...like in 1950s or 1960s. We don't mean just stuck in the past as far as appearances (though it was), but in attitudes towards racial equality too. That's not ok with us. We've never visited another place so completely different from the rest of the United States. I was really disappointed.

Missouri-I've been up in the Arch in St. Louis. Jackson hasn't. (I went when I was younger. I don't think I would go up again. It was very sensitive to the wind!) We've never been terribly impressed with Missouri to be honest. Maybe we are missing something but we found St. Louis to be a dirty, tough city.

Montana-We'll see this gorgeous state in September, too. I am so excited! (Jackson has been here when he visited Yellowstone as a kid and hid from buffalo- ha!)

Nebraska-I loved Nebraska for its people. I drove through in August, 2010 by myself with my convertible packed full of luggage since we were moving from Denver to Boston. I packed a lot of my clothes with me because I was spending two weeks in Indiana before the move. I'd just finished graduate school and was 26 years old (man, I just don't age!!) but must have been asked 5 times if I was starting school at the University of Nebraska. You guys- those people saw my inner youth. I loved them! I always will. I wear my HUSKERS shirt with nothing but love for those people. I actually thought Omaha was a pretty cool city and understood why Warren Buffet called it home. Jackson was a part of the National Junior Olympics held in Lincoln, NE in 1987 running the 4x4. He stayed at the Cornhusker hotel and loved it.

Nevada-If you want to experience Las Vegas in all of its glory you must travel with my Dad and step-mom, Diana. We joined them in Vegas after I finished graduate school and they put us up at Caesar's Palace. We made a ton of Hangover references during our stay, of course. Anyway, Dad and Diana were favored guests at like every casino in town so we all got treated like celebrities everywhere we went. We are so spoiled now that going back on our own would be lame! I'd been to Lake Mead on an early trip and saw the Hoover Dam then. It was pretty cool.

New Hampshire-We really like Hanover and found Dartmouth's campus to be quite charming. (As it turns out, I didn't find Hanover charming enough to relocate there to work at Dartmouth after receiving a job offer. Oops.) Portsmouth has a really adorable downtown that feels like it hasn't changed since the colonial days.

New Jersey-Princeton may be the only redeeming quality that this state has in my opinion. The campus is gorgeous and the surrounding town was just beautiful. Jackson would love to play Pine Valley Golf Club if anyone can get him an invite. ;) (I'd like to tell the members of that old boys' club just what I think of their "exclusive club" that only allows women to play on Sunday afternoons. Gag me. Douchebags. End of rant.) We do try to fly out of Newark when we have connecting flights because we love the view of NYC's skyline when taking off from that airport.

New Mexico-White Sands was really pretty. I visited on a youth group trip when I was younger. (I wanted to see it because Boys II Men shot a music video there. Goodness, some stuff never changes. That sounds like something I'd request even now. Ha!) Jackson's been to the four corners. We've always wanted to go to the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta but we've just not made it out yet.

New York-NYC is it, baby. We love "the city" and try to visit at least once a year. There is just something about the energy there that makes it so fun to visit. We feel like we could go there 100 times and still not experience everything. We've also been to the Anchor Bar in Buffalo where the buffalo wing was "invented." They're good, but other restaurants have improved on their recipe. We saw Niagra Falls from the U.S. side only because our passports were packed in the back of our moving truck. Supposedly the Canadian side is better which isn't saying much as that area of town was pretty rundown. The Falls are incredible, of course, but the little town around it is lacking.

North Carolina-We love North Carolina! Asheville is home to the Biltmore which is magnificent and was definitely worth the price of admission (we got free tickets) to tour. Charlotte is a great city (they even have Sonny's aka the best BBQ restaurant EVER) that we really enjoyed. The Raleigh/Durham area was just beautiful and home to two of the prettiest college campuses that we've seen (and we've seen a lot of them) as it is home to UNC and Duke. (Yes, Duke has a gorgeous campus. Too bad they fill it with jerks so no one with a heart can actually cheer for Duke.) The Outer Banks is a great place to spend some quiet time. We highly recommend the Nags Head Beach Inn as it is our favorite B&B ever.

North Dakota-WHEN WILL I GET TO SEE YOU?!?!?!?

Ohio-We've hung out in Cincinnati a few times. Kings Island is a prerequisite for being a teenager in central Indiana, too. Cedar Point is better, though. We'd like to get to NFL Hall of Fame in Canton next time we're headed East.

Oklahoma-I went shortly after the Oklahoma City bombing to see the damage done. I'll never forget that devastation. (Yes, we did make a detour on our youth group road trip from Marion to Phoenix just so that I could see the bombing's aftermath. My pastor, Jenny, is still one of my favorite people ever.) Jackson had family there that he visited as a kid. That's a little shaky, but he claims he remembers being there. (Uh huh.)

Oregon-We really enjoyed Oregon. It has some of the most beautifully scenic roads to the coast that I've ever seen. Their trees were just amazing. I love trees and theirs were so huge! We saw Multnomah Falls and were amazed at the beauty. One of our favorite cousins, Dede, lives out there (her former residence was in Boring, OR how cool is that city name?!) and was an excellent hostess for us.

Pennsylvania-Jackson's spent more than his fair share of time in Chambersburg where his maternal grandparents lived. (He and his grandma occasionally butted heads because they were both strong-willed individuals. Note: She must be having the last laugh as my strong-will beats Jackson's 96% of the time.) Pittsburgh's airport is WAY too far from downtown to feel comfortable in a cab alone at 3 in the morning due to a delayed flight while traveling on business. Ugh. That stunk! The downtown was actually really cool, though. We love Philly and all of its historical significance. Jackson will never forget the sandwich he had at Reading Terminal Market either. It is a gorgeous city that one European woman we met called it the U.S.'s version of Paris. We still laugh about that.

Rhode Island-Block Island (minus the ferry ride over on the sea's angriest day ever) was awesome. We road bikes and ate ice cream and it was lovely. The lighthouse on the island was really pretty, too. We spent an afternoon shopping in Providence and visiting Brown University. It was a nice town, but we prefer Boston.

South Carolina-We took our first trip as a couple to Charleston and stayed on the Isle of Palms for Valentine's Day 2006. (We cannot believe it was that long ago!) We really enjoyed the city and all of its culinary offerings. We've been to Hilton Head twice and can testify to it being much more enjoyable during the "off season" due to the crowds. We loved riding our bikes on the beach and visiting Harbour Town.

South Dakota-Bear Country U.S.A. is a stop we won't ever forget. The drive-through zoo where the bears literally rubbed against our car was pretty wild. MacKenzie was certain that the wolves wanted to play. We were certain that they saw her as a treat! We got baby bear cubs eat leftover sheet cakes from the local grocery store which was pretty much the cutest thing ever. We went to Mount Rushmore for Independence Day and got a great photo of the monument right before the fog rolled in and messed up the fireworks display. It was still a cool place to visit.

Tennessee-We were surprised at how much we liked the Memphis area. Germantown has to be one of the nicest suburban areas in the U.S. Nashville is also a fun city that we debated about calling home at one point. Things didn't work out that way, but we still enjoy visiting.

Texas-We've both been to Texas, just not together. Jackson's family lived in San Antonio when he was young. He hasn't returned. I'd always wanted to see Amarillo and I did on my youth group trip. It wasn't anything too exciting. I did see tumbleweed which made my trip to Texas complete. I spent a few days in Ft. Worth with my friend Megan a couple of years ago and thought it was a really cool city. We plan to spend some time exploring the state eventually.

Utah-Jackson gave my name to the Mormons and still laughs about it today. We visited the Great Salt Lake and were surprised at the stench.Jackson did float in the lake but was disgusted by it. I was having none of it. The water was like slime. Park City was beautiful and we'd love to return. Arches National Park was horrible for my allergies but fascinating to see. Moab was an interesting city in that it was surrounded by mountain walls,but the Mexican food in town was amazing. MacKenzie still hasn't forgiven us for Karen's K9 Camp.

Vermont-You really can get maple syrup at ANY interstate exit. It is a beautiful part of the country and worth a visit. We hiked in Montpelier and really enjoy our time there.

Virginia-Jackson was born in Richmond! My friend Megan got married in Radford back in 2005 so I drove out with some girlfriends. It is a really pretty drive and we've done it a few more times to get to Crystal City which is where we stay when we visit D.C. The traffic in Virginia is like some I've never seen anywhere else so I'd never live there.

Washington-Seattle is a lovely city where we'd happily live if the opportunity presented itself. We loved Bainbridge Island as it was so quaint and provided gorgeous views of the city's skyline. We could certainly spend more time exploring the area and eating the world's best chocolate chip cookies from Cow Chip Cookie Company.

West Virginia-We have driven through this state numerous times. We've not spent much time exploring it as MTV's BuckWild really portrayed how we view the area. Maybe that's not fair but that's how it goes. We would like to whitewater raft in the New River but the world is big and that's not at the top of our list.

Wisconsin-I went to the Dells with a friend's family when I was younger and enjoyed a ton of waterparks. Jackson has just driven through. We'd love to attend a Greenbay Packers game at Lambeau Field, though.

Wyoming-We actually think this is one of the prettiest states and we've not even seen the mountainous region yet. You can go for extended periods of time without seeing any signs of life which is kind of refreshing sometimes. Speeding is seemingly acceptable because no one is around. We cannot wait to spend some time at Jackson Hole and visiting Yellowstone.

In closing we think it is clear how much we've enjoyed completing this 50 by 30 quest. We have seen some great places and had a lot of fun along the way! :)

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Thursday, June 13, 2013

Siblings

I've done a lot of thinking about how important siblings are recently. (Before I go any further and really offend people I must admit that I know not every family is going to have multiple children. Shoot, we aren't having any! I'm just appreciating my particular life arrangement. This is in no way a plea for my brother or sister to have a little baby girl for me to spoil, though I wouldn't object. You two can thank Heidi for pacifying that wish of mine!) Then I saw this New York Times article: http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/26/opinion/sunday/bruni-the-gift-of-siblings.html?smid=pl-share and realized that I wasn't the only one.

I'm fortunate to have three siblings. If you asked me when I was younger if I felt "fortunate" to have all of my siblings I can guarantee I would have said, "I am the only child of my real parents. I was simply switched at birth." I am not kidding. I seriously thought I wasn't actually my parents' child for YEARS. My mom would swear that she saw me being delivered and I'd say there must have been another baby born then too and we got mixed up. I'm not sure when I gave up that campaign, but it certainly drove my mom nuts until I did. Anyway, I have two half-brothers and a "full" sister (that's how I described her when I was younger and didn't understand why, if she wasn't a half, I didn't need to indicate that by calling her a whole or full sister. It makes me chuckle now.) and they’re all older than me. (If I was switched, at least I got to go home to a family where I was the baby. I cannot imagine being the big sister. Ugh.) Anyway, my brothers Aaron (almost 11 years my senior) and Brian (almost 9 years older than me) are my dad's from his first marriage and therefore technically my half-brothers. (I never thought of them that way, but they're close enough to my mom in age that it sometimes took explaining that she didn't birth Aaron when she 14! :) My dad is about ten years older than my mom so that always helped things make a little more sense.) My dad went from having two boys in a row to having two girls in a row as my sister Kylie (a little over 2 years older than me) and I were born shortly after he married my mom.

Now, don't get me wrong, my sister and I didn't get along when we were growing up. In fact we were more like oil and water, cats and dogs, cinnamon and I...you get the point. I've never quite figured out why (other than she picked on me incessantly for being fat. She'll deny that, by the way. That's ok. I've gotten over it with only a few counseling sessions. I joke. I joke.). It finally came to me the other day that it was because we're darn near polar opposites. She is an outstanding mother and longed for Alex far before he was born. She always wanted to be a mom. I'll never be a mother and that's my wish. I don't remember ever wanting a child of my own. She hates change and has deemed Indianapolis as too big of a city to live in. I thrive on change and often think that Indianapolis is too small of a city to live in. She's deathly afraid of clowns. (Ok, I don't really have an opposite to that it is just one of my favorite facts about her.) I could go on with our differences, but I think you get the point now.

A few months ago Jackson and I went to dinner with Kylie and her husband, Nick. I figured out that though we're still really different, that doesn't matter anymore. What we have in common far outweighs what we don't. We both love our parents fiercely. We both miss our Grams with the same fierceness. We both love Alex with all of our hearts. She and I have history (even if she cannot always remember because that is another difference we have, I have the memory- and come to think of it body build- of an elephant and she has the memory of an ant). At our dinner she was spunky, funny and genuine. We had a great dinner with them. It finally showed me that all of those people who told us, "you'll love your sister when you get older," were right. I do. And maybe her giving me a hard time growing up prepared me more for the real world than I ever thought it would.

My brothers are a different story. Since they were so much older than me it did not take me any time at all to think they were awesome. I idolized Brian from the start. He was born with spina bifida and was in a wheelchair or on crutches his entire life. That didn't matter to me. He was awesome. I remember him putting me on his lap and taking me on ride down our steep driveway on his wheelchair. It was so fun. He got to watch MTV way before Kylie and I did so we'd sneak in and watch with him. Hearing Metallica's "Enter Sandman" will always remind me of the time that he let Kylie and me watch that scary music video. We both had nightmares and he got in trouble for it. He didn't care, though. He was just cool like that. He was very social and quite popular in high school. He used to get to go to the mall with his friends on Friday nights which was just the coolest thing ever in my mind. He could lift really heavy weights and do handstand push-ups. (I've tried. I still cannot do those darn push-ups that way.) He never made me feel like I was bothering him even though looking back I probably was. I remember being on crutches after a knee surgery a few years ago and sending him a note about how much more I admired him after that experience. I was awful at doing the most basic things that he made look simple. He wrote back and was upset for me that I was hurt. He didn't say "yeah, it sucks." or "welcome to my world." Nope. He just wanted me to heal up. I'll never forget that. He just did not feel bad for himself. He taught me so much about being thankful for what we've been given and about how to help others. He made my heart extra loving towards people with disabilities and I am a better person for getting to be his sister. While he's sadly been deceased for a little over two years now, not many days pass where I don't think of him. He was certainly on my mind during the mini marathon a few weeks ago. I could almost feel him rooting for Aaron and me. (Judging by our finishing times he must have been pulling a lot harder for Aaron- ha!)

Aaron doesn't look older than me even though he'll be 40 in August. It just isn't right. He found a fountain of youth and won't give anyone else the location. Ok, maybe it is the really, really fast running he does everyday. Or his super clean diet. Anyway, he is an inspiration for me for sure. Aaron is seriously the best dad to my nephew Justin. I am so, so proud of what a wonderful parent he is. He works hard and has a lot of fun. He is one of the most cleanly men I've ever met. His car would make mine look messy and that's saying something because I keep mine as tidy as possible at all times. (He really needs to pass this trait on to Jackson who doesn't grasp why leaving empty Diet Coke cans and old receipts in his car is so gross. Ha!) Anyway, Aaron is so supportive of his family members and would make a great husband for some lucky girl if he'd ever settle down. (End of hint.) He has been such a good big brother to all of us and I love him for it.

I've been working on this post for a couple of days and while I was writing it I got the news that my sister is having to undergo some pretty serious surgery next Friday. She's asked that I not get into specifics so I won't, but God knows what is going on so please pray for her and He'll understand. Thinking of my sister, the girl who blazed the trail for me in life, having this kind of surgery breaks my heart. I started thinking of everything she had to do first that made my life easier and came up with quite a few things. She got braces first. Neither of us liked wearing our headgear. She did wear hers, though. I....didn't. (Sorry, Mom.) She always had to start new schools before me so she could tell me how things worked (she was in middle school and high school for two years each before I got there. You learn a lot of tricks for "survival" in two years!). She learned to drive first and seeing her learn made it easier for me when it was my turn. She went to college first and my mom had no idea what she really needed for the first year. By the time I went to college mom was an old pro and there were no issues. I took as many college classes as I could in high school because she didn't and wished she had. I finished my degree in three years because of that advice and saved a ton of money. She bought a house and decided not to move back to Grant County after college first (I knew she was wise!). That made it much easier for me to do the same. I know there are more examples, but it really hit me that she always had to go first whether she liked it or not. I never heard her complain about it either. It wasn't until I was getting married before her that she complained about not being first! I honestly think it may have been the only time that I'd be leading the maiden voyage. (It wasn't long after that she met Nick and the rest is history.) And now she unfortunately has to go down this scary medical road first. I'll be cheering and praying for her, though because that's just what siblings do.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Zero Dark Thirty and No Easy Day


Warning: the movie is quite long

Warning: you may find yourself on the edge of your seat...OFTEN

I'm sure you've all heard the quote to "do one thing every day that scares you." I always found that quote to be really odd. Am I supposed to go hold snakes every day? Or jump out of an airplane? No. I think doing something that scares you is just pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Sometimes that may be something as small as daring to jump up on a box that feels like a stretch for you in a boot camp. Other times it may be watching a movie or reading a book about something that makes you uncomfortable. Recently I pushed myself to watch "Zero Dark Thirty" and read (OK, listen to on my commute) "No Easy Day" both of which are about the raid that ended Bin Laden's life.
I do not know how accurate either account is, of course. I suggest watching the movie before you read the book so that you have a bit of background on the situation. The movie focuses on CIA agents who found Bin Laden and the book focuses on the Navy SEALS who actually completed the raid that killed him. Some of the images from the movie have really stuck with me. I think they should. It is so easy to see news stories about the war and feel like it is so far away and that it should be over already. This movie and this book bring the war into your living room (or car) and give you a front row seat. No wonder our troops come back with PTSD. This stuff is awful to witness from here, I cannot imagine being on the front lines.

The interesting thing for me is that both of these works have well known endings but they're still fascinating. I wanted to write the author of the book a letter of appreciation after finishing the book, but he is in hiding because the media released his true identity and put his life in danger. (That makes me so mad!) I cannot tell you how nervous I got each time he entered a dangerous situation. A few times Jackson would call me while I was listening and I'd say, "cannot talk, in the middle of a firefight!" and he'd just agree to let me go back to my book. I'm sure he shook his head at me like he always does. ;) Anyway, I cannot recommend these two works enough.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Let birthday week begin...

Saturday kicked off my "birthday week" celebrations. Jackson and I went to Upland to have dinner and dessert with my Mom and Guy. The menu, which I selected, consisted of stuffed mushrooms, BBQ baked chicken, twice baked potatoes, wheat dinner rolls and a peach pie with Ivanhoe's soft serve ice cream. (I know. This meal threw my diet out the window and my scale still doesn't listen to me when I say that Upland calories do not count.)
It was as good as it looks!
We also celebrated Macy's 9th birthday! She doesn't look a day over 5. :)
Macy enjoying a new birthday toy from MacKenzie
Since we'd eaten like it was our last meal, we decided to take Addie (the 100+ pound giant schnauzer) and MacKenzie for a walk around town.
Addie is quite strong and tired herself (and Jackson) out quite quickly
It was hilarious to see MacKenzie look back at Addie like, "come on, dummy! This isn't even a long walk. Let's GO!" MacK and I lead the way the entire walk. When we returned Addie headed to her water bucket and basically dunked her head in it. She proceeded to catch her breath for the next two hours or so. I'm not kidding. She's out of shape. (Perhaps she needs walks more often, Mom!)

Guy and Jackson working on the landscaping
While Addie recovered, Jackson helped Guy with some landscaping work around the front yard. I don't like working in the yard and I'm not very good at it so I hung out with the dogs and cleaned the outdoor furniture. Wait...wasn't this supposed to be my birthday celebration? Hmm...something clearly isn't adding up! HA! I joke. I joke.

Anyway, soon the boys sent us on a beer run. They claimed it was for the people coming over the next day, but I think they just both wanted cold ones! My Mom drove me to the Gas City liquor store where I proceeded to buy two 6-packs thinking that was what I needed to get. I got my license checked and headed to the car happy to be out of that small, dirty store. Then I was reminded that I was supposed to get two 12-packs. CRAP! I had to go back into the store and make another purchase. The cashier was like, "umm...didn't you just buy the exact same thing like 4 minutes ago?" Yes, I did. Thanks for noticing. Ha! Anyway, in the end the beer was cold and got to the boys for their enjoyment. At least someone got to celebrate the beginning of my birthday week. ;)