I've often read that one of the keys to a happy marriage is to stay best friends. We've done that. I'd add a bit to that and make it read more like, "stay best friends by becoming interested in one another's interests."
When Jackson and I first married I would nap during football games on Sundays. I'd nap during golf tournaments (OK, I still do if Tiger isn't playing. Sue me.). I only cared about basketball and even then I didn't care that much. Sure, I'd make a bracket come tournament time but that was really just to win money. After a couple of years I realized that Jackson loves sports and was never going to stop loving them. I made it my mission to learn about his favorite sports so that we could enjoy them together. I now argue that I'm a bigger sports fan than he is- ha! While he keeps things boring by only cheering for one team, I like to cheer for multiple teams. He likes to root for Phil Mickelson. I root for TIGER, Rickie Fowler, Bubba, etc. and occasionally Phil. Look, Phil seems like a heck of a guy and I appreciate his tax planning initiatives more than anyone but he's so...boring.
Anyway, this now mutual love of sports provides us with plenty of topics for bantering via text message. We had two particularly funny exchanges yesterday that I thought I would share.
Jenna is the blue writing, Jackson the gray. Tim means Tim Tebow. |
We love to make fake hashtags |
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